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As children,we grow up thinking that our parents are heroes and perfect,but as time goes on we come to realize that they are just as human as we are. However,a change in your knowledge of your father doesn’t have to be the end of your strong connection to him.

*  36   You thought that you knew exactly who your father was. Now that something has changed that,you feel shock and loss. Whatever has caused this change in your knowledge has caused your father to never be the same in your life.   37 

 * Handle the anger. When the shock of this change of view wears off,you may slide into anger. Feeling angry at this point is natural but it is important that you deal with it appropriately and constructively. You don’t want to damage your other relationships,for example.

* Take some time to look in the mirror. This is a time for self-reflection. Has your father really changed? If so,why are his changes so hard for you to accept compared to those of other people in your life?  38 

* Communicate. When you have a firm handle on your emotions,you need to communicate

With your father. You need to speak to him about how you are dealing with this big change.  39   He may not even be aware of the change,because to himself he is simply human. Discuss things honestly.

   * Rebuild. The relationship you and with your father as a child is gone.   40   Accept that it is gone and start building a different relationship with him. If you give it a chance,your new relationship will be truer,deeper and more loving than the one you had before.

A. Does it make sense to hold on to your childish belief that he is perfect ?

B. Acknowledge the shock.

C. Most importantly,you need listen to him.

D. Speak to a third party to get a different point of view of him.

E. The longer you hold on to it,the harder it will be to build something new.

F. Ignoring or hiding from your pain isn’t going to help anything.

G. A father is the first male relationship we have in our lives and so is part of who we are.

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